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The Importance of Escape

As many, if not all of you are aware now, there has been a terrible tragedy at Northern Illinois University in DeKalb, Illinois.  As a current resident and grad assistant at NIU with a wife attending the law school, the last 36 hours have been very stressful.

Natural questions of why the guy did what he did, why he chose the classroom he chose, why those people died and why people like my wife, who was in a building less than a block away, remained pretty much completely safe have been through my head.

However, despite all of that, I can say that with pitchers and catchers reporting I had planned to wear my Cardinals jersey to school today (the teachers at my H.S. typically do a casual Friday thing), and between the fact that it brought up discussions with colleagues and students about sports, the fact that I have spent much of the last 36 hours either watching the news or frequenting websites like Viva El Birdos, Matthew Leach's blog and MLB Trade Rumors, and the optimism of a new baseball season just around the bend, I can say without hesitation that baseball has given me momentary escapes from the continuing coverage that wouldn't be possible in any other way.

I know I'm an unscathed bystander in this horrible tragedy.  I was not directly affected in that no one I know was hurt or killed.  However many other people I know who work in this town were affected directly.  I can't imagine how many of them have retreated to their favorite pastimes, whether it be one of the many Chicago sports teams, such as the Bears, Bulls, Cubs or White Sox, or for many of them the Green Bay Packers or their college teams, including even the teams of Northern Illinois University or the University of Illinois, where the shooter was apparently studying.  

That's the beautiful thing about sports.  Whether we root for the St. Louis Cardinals, the Chicago Cubs, or the New York Yankees.  Whether we root for the Detroit Red Wings or the Indianapolis Colts.  Whether we root for the UCLA Men's Basketball team or the U of Florida football team.  We don't embrace these players and these teams because it's relevant to our everyday lives.  We embrace them because they AREN'T relevant to our everyday lives.  We embrace them because they help us escape our everyday lives.

So while we may all argue about whether Izturis warrants a roster spot or whether the Glaus for Rolen trade was good or bad for the Cardinals or even LBoros's recent posts about Jocketty's legacy, please join me in taking a step back and just appreciating the fact that we have sports to distract us and entertain us when we want to escape what is often a monotonous, stressful everyday life.

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Best wishes to your town in this very difficult time.

I often think that, upon flipping through a newspaper, I turn to the sports page first because it's a good combination of predictability and drama -- drama but within well-defined boundaries.  Nothing like all these terrible shootings we've recently seen.

by jfs on Feb 15, 2008 11:09 PM EST reply actions  

Amen mtalken
Sports help relieve stress and anxiety in the lives of the fans... and that's one reason I am getting into the massage business when I graduate. To help people relax and lose their stress even for just a moment....

I am glad your wife is safe man that is very scary...... I am just thankful that more people didn't die.. there was over 140 people in that room wow that is scary....
The Almighty God protected a lot of people there and for that I am very thankful....

by Calhoun on Feb 15, 2008 11:51 PM EST reply actions  

Amen indeed
The Cards have helped me escape more than once. Most notably during the 2004 pennant race. I was deployed to Baghdad during that year, and keeping up with the Cardinals during their amazing season really gave me something positive to focus my energy on. I wasn't able to see them play until the playoffs began, after which I got to see some of the games (albeit very early in the morning local time). I missed Jimmy's catch and Game 6 bomb, but I did get to see Rolen's HR off of the Rocket in Game 7...which was beyond awesome. The Redbirds really helped me keep my sanity that year, and I'll never forget that team or that season...

Great post. Glad your wife is okay...

"That's baseball, and it's my game. Y'know, you take your worries to the game, and you leave 'em there. You yell like crazy for your guys." - Humphrey Bogart

by iron duke75 on Feb 16, 2008 6:44 AM EST reply actions  

our thoughts
and sympathy are with all those afected by this tragedy.
"bury the dead, feed the survivors and rebuild the city" (marques do pombal, 1777)

by Johnny64 on Feb 16, 2008 12:31 PM EST reply actions  

i completely agree
Viva has been a GOD send for me the past 5+ years while i took care of dad.

it's hard to understand why people take things to such extreme measure like what happened at NIU & also in Kirkwood last week. but i am grateful we have sites like this & teams like the Cardinals to help us get away from the world we live in, if only for a few minutes or hours out of the day.

I'm going to go try to find a puppy and kick it. - Brad Thompson And That's A Winner!

by gdm426 on Feb 16, 2008 6:00 PM EST reply actions  

As a Student at NIU
Its hard to really wrap your head around what happened on Thursday. I mean, if it had been a Monday, Wednesday or Friday, I would have been in the same room where it happened. As it was I was taking a test in Dusable, which is next door to cole hall, when it happened. When you ask yourself what it will take to get back to normal, you end up retreating to the things that are constant in life. Baseball has always been one of those things for me, so having sites like this and future redbirds really  helps. I have no idea what it will be like to go back to class a week from Monday, but I know the first thing I will do when I get back is read the reports for that day in Jupiter.
"A Jose Canseco bat? Tell me you didn't pay money for this."

by NIUCardinals on Feb 17, 2008 1:58 AM EST reply actions  

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